Sunday, October 19, 2008

Loving Married Life

So I have been married for 2 weeks now. WOW! I wished that I started this blog a lot sooner. I would have been blogging everyday about all the roller coaster events of planning a wedding, building a house, getting stranded in the middle of the ocean during hurricane Ike, losing my mother's car due to hurricane Ike and learning to live with my fiancee.
Seriously we put a lot on our plate this year. It has been INSANE! But the sun does shine after the rain.
We have so much love for each other. It took going through all this insane year to help us find how much we really do love and care for each other.

The road to where we are now has been very rocky. Two weeks before the wedding I thought Eddie was trying to kill me. Every morning Eddie would park his car behind mine. He knew I left for work before him. So every morning I would walk outside to find his car behind mine, then I had to walk inside and FIND his car keys, then walk back outside get in his car, adjust the car seat, move the car, adjust the car seat again, go back inside to leave his keys, and then finally leave for work. He was SERIOUSLY trying to KILL ME! Of course he denied trying to kill me, and said that he thought he gave me enough room to back out of the driveway.

But I really love him. And I can appreciate all the struggles now. We have been in each other's lives for 5 and 1/2 years. We have lost family members along the way. And have laughed, and cried through a lot of events. He is my best friend and the love of my life. I listen to his twin sister Mandy struggling to plan her wedding, and I am trying to reassure her that all will be fine. We hated each other planning our wedding. We told each other "we can't wait to get this over with". We said this everyday. The day of our wedding flew by. It was the fastest day every. On that day we repeated to each other that this day was just flying by tooooo fast. All the struggles were worth it. I hope Mandy reads this blog and understands that everything will be okay. The love finds you guys all over again. It is like falling in love for the first time.
That's all for today...the Cowboys are seriously upsetting me...so I am gonna eat a lot of food, and yell at the T.V.

Sandy De La Garza

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